speed (again) ethics at sessions
After having read the speed thread a few days ago, a question occured to me. Please let me explain first.
At our sessions, there´s a very strong tendency to play way to fast. You know this kind of reels and jigs with lots of tones and little detail. Just fast forward. Also, if someone starts a set of, lets say, reels, its normal that this person is the one deciding the set and when to change from one tune to another. And its considered bad ethics when someone suddenly start playing other tunes in a set.
My problem is that when I start a set of reels which i consider should be moderate speed, then the second tune is being played at a fast speed and the 3rd at a super fast speed. Sometimes I might not be able to go from tune 2 to tune 3, and then I´m being told that i have to be able to play my whole set, which I can if i was allowed to play it my way.
To me, this is very annoying and it feels wrong, so here comes the question:
¿What are the ethics when it comes to speeding in someone elses set of tunes? Shouldnt the other players respect the speed that I (or another player) sets?